STOP WORRYING SO DAMN MUCH ABOUT YOUR FIGURE
YOU LOOK FINE.
It makes me really freaking sad (working in the food service industry) seeing how many otherwise powerful, intelligent, successful women are completely crippled by their unhealthy opinions of their own bodies.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t go to the gym, or be careful not to eat foie gras every night. But dammit, if you love food, then ENJOY it! If you want to be in better shape, do it! Work out, get fit. But do it because you want to get fit, not because you’re terrified of being considered worthless if you’re not.
It sounds cliche, but it’s true that people like you better and think you’re more attractive if you’re comfortable with yourself and your lifestyle. And I doubt that you can be that way if